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On the 3rd Day of Christmas
I love the song 12 Days of Christmas so I was thinking about this on the 13th night before the holiday on Sunday. At that moment it came to me that this has been a challenging year for many of us and that everyday should celebrate the holidays this year offering a special discount to celebrate the season. I looked at the calendar and saw that it was meant to be. So here goes, check out our Surprise Special Today:
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Tiger-Our Healthy Reaction to An Unhealthy Situation
I keep getting asked, what do you think of Tiger's behavior? It seems to come up in almost every conversation over the last few weeks.
Here are my thoughts.
Honor
I get really tired of hearing excuses about a high profile public figure's dishonorable conduct, especially of the sexual nature, the latest being Tiger Woods.
If you found out that your favorite neighborhood chef/restaurateur that you had spent hundreds of hours at and lots of money over the years had lied and stolen money on an ongoing basis from his customers and business partners while they in good faith backed him and opened up additional restaurants in his name would you feel enthusiastic about eating at his restaurant again knowing that the person was a crook? Would that food nurture you anymore?
Many people believe that business fraud and spousal sexual infidelity are not equal offenses but in fact they very much are, there is a contractual relationship with promises on both sides to keep the agreement. When one party lies, cheats, steals from the other that is an equal and intolerable offense. Dishonorable conduct whether in sexual dynamics, business or otherwise should be a disappointment and encourage us to ponder deeply our own conduct and the people in whom we place our admiration. Instead of excusing such behavior because we think it's old fashioned to care about betrayals of other human beings, we need to stop and say, "no that is unacceptable." "I want my conduct and my role models to be honest, to be ethical, to be honorable, and to demonstrate integrity. I want to feed myself and those around me with something healthier for our families, communities, and world."
Real
Public Figures are Public Servants. If a person has sought the spotlight through showing off a skill or persona-they have sought to be a public figure and public figures serve the public on a grand scale whether that be an entertainer, athlete, politician, spokesperson. Public figures have agreed to have an intimate relationship with thousands if not millions of people-they want the public to invest in them (in watching, listening, taking action, and purchasing products). And as we get to know them, if we like them and their offering, we do. This is a form of intimacy just as a committed personal relationship is a form of intimacy.
All we ask are for our public figures to be real.
We are A-OK with diversity. A one size fits all lifestyle is not what we are looking for. The public figures that communicate who they really are, whether we agree with their life choices or not, such as forthright polygamous Kurt Russell, married, turned gay Elton John, hippie turned conservative Muslim Cat Stevens, bisexual Lindsey Lohan and porn star Jenna Jameson we can embrace them or choose not to. We can make a choice of our preferred public figures that are aligned with our interests and who we wish to be.
But what we do not have tolerance for in the public is someone who shows the public a certain persona and is far from it. Tiger showed us warm, dotting new husband, father, family man and he lived something very different. Tiger Woods is a playboy. This was Tiger Woods failure, failure to himself, to his wife, to his children, to the public. He discredited himself. We all have the broken intimate relationship with Tiger Woods.
Entitlement
Last night I went to a screening of the award winning film The Greatest Silence: Rape in the Congo. The film at one point interviewed soldiers who had and were still brutally raping women and when asked by the film maker, "why they did it?" They said two things, because they had a need (they were entitled) and that raping would help them win the battle. War made these soldiers feel entitled to their devastating and dishonorable conduct.
Tiger's #1 Golfer status and his billion dollars in earnings made him feel entitled to his dishonorable conduct of infidelity bringing woman after woman to him to feed his need and for fuel to win another battle, another tournament.
Correlation-ego-centric drives, dishonorable sex with women- the means, outcome- irreversible pain.
Repair
Spousal lying and cheating is not something to become complacent about. My heart goes out to his wife Erin and their children. My advice to you, don't make a quick decision. Seek at least 6 months, if not more, of counseling to decide what your next steps need to be. Don't forget this is your journey too. Make it as conscious and growth-oriented as possible in the midst of your pain. And focus on your own empowerment and place in the world. Tiger I wish you honesty, a coming to your knees bold look at yourself and a soul and sexual healing. Trust isn't built easily but it is always very difficult and time consuming to repair. I hope you will take up the challenge
All Food for thought!
Here are my thoughts.
Honor
I get really tired of hearing excuses about a high profile public figure's dishonorable conduct, especially of the sexual nature, the latest being Tiger Woods.
If you found out that your favorite neighborhood chef/restaurateur that you had spent hundreds of hours at and lots of money over the years had lied and stolen money on an ongoing basis from his customers and business partners while they in good faith backed him and opened up additional restaurants in his name would you feel enthusiastic about eating at his restaurant again knowing that the person was a crook? Would that food nurture you anymore?
Many people believe that business fraud and spousal sexual infidelity are not equal offenses but in fact they very much are, there is a contractual relationship with promises on both sides to keep the agreement. When one party lies, cheats, steals from the other that is an equal and intolerable offense. Dishonorable conduct whether in sexual dynamics, business or otherwise should be a disappointment and encourage us to ponder deeply our own conduct and the people in whom we place our admiration. Instead of excusing such behavior because we think it's old fashioned to care about betrayals of other human beings, we need to stop and say, "no that is unacceptable." "I want my conduct and my role models to be honest, to be ethical, to be honorable, and to demonstrate integrity. I want to feed myself and those around me with something healthier for our families, communities, and world."
Real
Public Figures are Public Servants. If a person has sought the spotlight through showing off a skill or persona-they have sought to be a public figure and public figures serve the public on a grand scale whether that be an entertainer, athlete, politician, spokesperson. Public figures have agreed to have an intimate relationship with thousands if not millions of people-they want the public to invest in them (in watching, listening, taking action, and purchasing products). And as we get to know them, if we like them and their offering, we do. This is a form of intimacy just as a committed personal relationship is a form of intimacy.
All we ask are for our public figures to be real.
We are A-OK with diversity. A one size fits all lifestyle is not what we are looking for. The public figures that communicate who they really are, whether we agree with their life choices or not, such as forthright polygamous Kurt Russell, married, turned gay Elton John, hippie turned conservative Muslim Cat Stevens, bisexual Lindsey Lohan and porn star Jenna Jameson we can embrace them or choose not to. We can make a choice of our preferred public figures that are aligned with our interests and who we wish to be.
But what we do not have tolerance for in the public is someone who shows the public a certain persona and is far from it. Tiger showed us warm, dotting new husband, father, family man and he lived something very different. Tiger Woods is a playboy. This was Tiger Woods failure, failure to himself, to his wife, to his children, to the public. He discredited himself. We all have the broken intimate relationship with Tiger Woods.
Entitlement
Last night I went to a screening of the award winning film The Greatest Silence: Rape in the Congo. The film at one point interviewed soldiers who had and were still brutally raping women and when asked by the film maker, "why they did it?" They said two things, because they had a need (they were entitled) and that raping would help them win the battle. War made these soldiers feel entitled to their devastating and dishonorable conduct.
Tiger's #1 Golfer status and his billion dollars in earnings made him feel entitled to his dishonorable conduct of infidelity bringing woman after woman to him to feed his need and for fuel to win another battle, another tournament.
Correlation-ego-centric drives, dishonorable sex with women- the means, outcome- irreversible pain.
Repair
Spousal lying and cheating is not something to become complacent about. My heart goes out to his wife Erin and their children. My advice to you, don't make a quick decision. Seek at least 6 months, if not more, of counseling to decide what your next steps need to be. Don't forget this is your journey too. Make it as conscious and growth-oriented as possible in the midst of your pain. And focus on your own empowerment and place in the world. Tiger I wish you honesty, a coming to your knees bold look at yourself and a soul and sexual healing. Trust isn't built easily but it is always very difficult and time consuming to repair. I hope you will take up the challenge
All Food for thought!
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
On the 2nd Day of Christmas
My true love gave to me
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Monday, December 14, 2009
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Friday, December 11, 2009
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Friday, December 04, 2009
The New Sacred Love-Is Almost Here
December Surprise: The New SacredLove.com is Almost Here
You may remember back in January of this year filling in an important Sacred Love survey answering questions of how Sacred Love was meeting your needs and what you would like added as part of our services. Well Sacred Love Members we listened to you and wishes do come true. We have been working for an entire year, all of 2009, on developing the new Sacred Love.com and it is just weeks away from being ready for you to experience and enjoy.
Experience is the key word as we will be providing a unique variety of membership services to create "Your Love Lifestyle" at whatever stage you are, in your love life.This new set of love service opportunities is fueled by Karinna's deep passion to help you enjoy more meaningful relationships today. That means that if you are single there are Sacred Love services just for you to inspire you in love, help you find your own Sacred Love and support your growth to have more of the love you desire now! And if you are currently in a relationship we have services for the two of you to enliven your romance, deepen your love and spice up your intimate life with that special someone.
Whether you are at any of these stages of your love life:
Just Loving Yourself Right Now
Want to be Dating
Are Dating
In Love Right Now
In a Committed Relationship
Newly Weds
Going Through Marriage Challenges
Married Forever
Divorced
Healing Your Heart
Ready to Love Again
Loving Anew
At the new Sacred Love.com we are honored and ready to serve you.
The New SacredLove.com takes all that we do already another quantum leap to support you in having a more Fun, Fun, Fun and Meaningful, Quality, Romantic Love Life no matter where you are in your process. Our Sacred Love services will be available for you on your own time, at your own pace, whenever you like 24/7. Your only dilemma will be picking and choosing your favorite memberships to try first.
We look forward to revealing the new site to you in the coming weeks and answering any questions you have before and after. To contact us you can use the following:
Tweet at http://twitter.com/findsacredlove
Or email info@sacredlove.com
You may remember back in January of this year filling in an important Sacred Love survey answering questions of how Sacred Love was meeting your needs and what you would like added as part of our services. Well Sacred Love Members we listened to you and wishes do come true. We have been working for an entire year, all of 2009, on developing the new Sacred Love.com and it is just weeks away from being ready for you to experience and enjoy.
Experience is the key word as we will be providing a unique variety of membership services to create "Your Love Lifestyle" at whatever stage you are, in your love life.This new set of love service opportunities is fueled by Karinna's deep passion to help you enjoy more meaningful relationships today. That means that if you are single there are Sacred Love services just for you to inspire you in love, help you find your own Sacred Love and support your growth to have more of the love you desire now! And if you are currently in a relationship we have services for the two of you to enliven your romance, deepen your love and spice up your intimate life with that special someone.
Whether you are at any of these stages of your love life:
Just Loving Yourself Right Now
Want to be Dating
Are Dating
In Love Right Now
In a Committed Relationship
Newly Weds
Going Through Marriage Challenges
Married Forever
Divorced
Healing Your Heart
Ready to Love Again
Loving Anew
At the new Sacred Love.com we are honored and ready to serve you.
The New SacredLove.com takes all that we do already another quantum leap to support you in having a more Fun, Fun, Fun and Meaningful, Quality, Romantic Love Life no matter where you are in your process. Our Sacred Love services will be available for you on your own time, at your own pace, whenever you like 24/7. Your only dilemma will be picking and choosing your favorite memberships to try first.
We look forward to revealing the new site to you in the coming weeks and answering any questions you have before and after. To contact us you can use the following:
Tweet at http://twitter.com/findsacredlove
Or email info@sacredlove.com
Wednesday, December 02, 2009
Tiger Woods-Here for You!
Tiger Woods, I am here if you really want to get honest and transform the path you have been on into a more sacred journey with your wife!
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