How you
argue with your partner determines the success of your relationship. This article offers love tips to really
understand how to fight or end a fight without losing your control. This is something that you need to learn. Control is actually a primary requirement for
fighting fair. Regardless of how you
feel, you cannot be abusive.
Disagreements
will happen. It happens in any
relationship. You will have different
opinions and you will likely argue with your partner. It is important, therefore, that you know how
to fight fair. Here are some great love
tips on how to do just that.
First off,
if you would like to fight fair, you need to ask your partner if you could
engage in a conversation or discussion.
Just like aristocratic Europeans who invite their opponents to a duel,
you should ask your partner or your lover if you could bring up a point of
conflict. You could begin by asking,
“Can I bring an observation to your attention that I would like your thoughts about?” If he or she is open to that discussion, then
you can proceed in a calm voice. If he
or she is not open to this discussion, then you can ask them when it might be a
better time, but don’t let the tension last before you go to sleep. You need to resolve any conflict between you
and your spouse as soon as you can.
Letting it simmer will eventually take the joy and ease out of your
relationship.
These love
tips will help you resolve conflicts without fighting dirty. A fight often starts when two people rub each
other the wrong way. A simple
observation could offend the more sensitive couple and this could spark a huge
fight. The difference in the couple’s
attitudes, priorities and views can trigger a fight. When faced with this kind of fight, you have
two choices: you could either fight in
order to win or you could choose to engage in a conflict resolution
discussion. The latter choice allows you
to find common ground which will help you empower yourselves as individuals and
strengthen your relationship. The first
choice aims to dominate; the second choice aims to strengthen a partnership.
Love Tip
Steps on Fighting Fair
1. Begin your sentences with “I feel” when
talking to your spouse. Often, people do
not see themselves clearly in a conflict; so it is important that you stay calm
and you talk about your feelings instead of enumerating all his or her flaws or
faults. Talking about how you feel makes
a lot of difference in a conversation.
2. Consider how your partner feels too. There is always room for constructive
observation and feedback. You need to
look and consider your partner’s point of view and feelings as well and
communicate those observations. You need
to find the balance between honoring your point of view and respecting your
partner’s views as well.
Don’t be
afraid of conflict. Conflict can be increasingly averted in your intimate
relationship by understanding where each person is coming from. Your abilities
to fight fair can help strengthen your relationship.
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2 comments:
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